Okay, I'm resuming this blog after 3 1/2 years.  Looking back since I last wrote, it's crazy how much has changed.  Around the time I was writing I decided to get healthy and to go on eHarmony.   I decided it was time to make some changes in my life and I started there.
   I went on to eHarmony not entirely knowing what I was getting into and I did not find a relationship, but I did find my confidence again.  I learned that I am pretty, that people do find me interesting, and just because the majority of my friends were in long term committed relationships, did not mean that I would be a lone forever.
    I went out with several people over the three months that I was on the site and even dated someone for around a month.  It was incredibly evident that we were looking for different things when I was badgered about when I wanted to have kids and when I told him I was undecided on children, he explained to me that he very badly wanted kids and it was a deal breaker.  We'd only been dating for around a month so I did the very adult thing and told him that it was clear we were in different places in our lives and broke up with him via a text message.  Not one of my better decisions, but it was the easy way out.
   I'm an alumnae of the University of Cincinnati and a very active alumnae.  I'm a football season ticket holder, attend basketball games, and volunteer quite a bit of time to my sorority.  I even donate the random $18.19 + $10 when they call.  I love UC.
   After the break up via text message, I let my eHarmony account expire and decided to enjoy the busy fall and football season.  UC was playing Pitt in Pittsburgh and I decided to go see one of my best friends who was living in Pittsburgh at the time and then we could go to the game.  Some of her other friends had a similar idea and she talked me into riding with them.  There was this guy, Doug, whom I had met before on some other UC football road trips in New Orleans and WVU, but never in Cincinnati.  I rode up to Pittsburgh with him and three other guys and had the most amazing weekend.  Doug and I had so much fun on the trip that we continued to stay in contact and now almost three years later we're married.
   It's crazy for me to think back on the past three years and it seems so long ago, but also just like it was yesterday.  Doug and I clicked right away and after only dating for 8 months we moved into an apartment downtown Cincinnati.  We've lived there for over two years and absolutely love everything about urban living.  I work downtown and Doug works close by so moving our cars is only a weekly event.
   Downtown Cincinnati has been transformed the past few years and we love going to the different events and hitting up all the new hipster delicious restaurants.  I've clearly watched Top Chef too much because I love trying new items and judging them just like Gail (she seriously has the best job ever).  I used to be very neutral about Cincinnati, but I've fallen in love with this city and see why people stay for life.
   We got married on September 13, 2014 and it was a magical day.  The weather was perfect and the day seriously went by in a blur, but I don't know if any couple is more blessed and lucky to have such great family and friends.  We had our rehearsal dinner at the UC football game the Friday before thanks to Doug's sister contacting the university.  Our wedding was a full mass and just wonderful.  We then danced the night away at our reception and quickly got up the next morning with only about 4 hours of sleep and flew off to Jamaica to an all-inclusive resort.  Magical may be an understatement of how amazing that weekend was and this short description doesn't do it justice.  The feeling of love in the air was not only between Doug and I, but everyone around which is exactly how I wanted to start my marriage.
   Now back to my weight loss.  I just all of a sudden decided to start calorie counting to see what I really was eating.  I never was obese or anything, but decided to get healthy after seeing what I really was taking in which was quite a bit more than I should have.  I weighed in at around 160 lbs. on a 5'2" frame, not crazy terrible, but a little higher for my height than I should have been.  I did it the healthy way or what I consider the healthy way: eating around 1200 calories Monday-Friday and then allowed myself the weekend to eat and drink whatever I liked.  I didn't make anything forbidden and on the weekends, at first I went to town with it whatever I wanted, but after a while my body wanted me to eat healthy all the time and I was making myself sick eating grease.  I had to learn that if I wanted pizza then I had to do it in moderation and fill up a bit on salad first because I would be paying for it later.  It is amazing that after only eating bad for a day or two I would crave a salad.  Funny how your body gets used to things.  It took about two years of this, but I'm down to 115 lbs. and do not plan on losing anymore and I'm still okay with the lifestyle.
   Through the two years of weight loss, it was clear that weight loss is much easier if you eat in.  I have so much more control over what goes in to my body rather than guessing how many calories is in something at a local restaurant.  I now love to cook and Doug has definitely benefited from this.  I love that I can still eat spaghetti and meatballs, but I eat 2 ounces whole wheat spaghetti with tomato sauce, homemade turkey meatballs, and I add lots of bell peppers, broccoli, and peas.  The more vegetables the better.   Everything in moderation is how I have maintained.
   If I'm the only one who ever looks at this blog, that's completely fine.  I'm just excited to share about my new life and of course share about food.